Two commitment phobes dating
Just last week, I was meant to have a date with a guy I’ve been seeing for a bit who I know there isn’t a future with.(He doesn’t want anything serious right now.) The day of our dinner, I get a text from another guy I’d had a great first date with the weekend before, asking if I was free after work for our second date.Whilst writing my book The Mr Unavailable Guide (working title), I am writing a lot about the issue of commitment-phobia and it’s stranglehold on relationships.
He’d texted me on Thursday, asking what I was up to this weekend. In my defence, I was on a date with another guy when the message came in.
They themselves have straight up admitted to ghosting.
If you act like a fuckboy and text like a fuckboy, you’re probably a fuckboy, y'all.
And while that guy was collecting our drinks from the bar, I peeked at my phone, read the message, and made a mental note to respond to it later in the night.
But after a few glasses of rosé, I forgot about it.